Bitcoin Estate Planning Essentials

Bitcoin Letter of Instructions: What to Write, What to Omit, and How to Store It

Your will tells your heirs who gets your Bitcoin. Your letter of instructions tells them how to find it. Without it, even a perfectly drafted estate plan can fail — and your Bitcoin can be lost forever.

HF Hal Franklin, Bitcoin Wealth Strategist March 1, 2026 14 min read
The Statistic That Matters: An estimated 3-4 million Bitcoin — worth hundreds of billions of dollars — is believed to be permanently lost, largely because holders died or became incapacitated without leaving access instructions. A letter of instructions, written today, costs nothing and takes two hours. The cost of not writing one can be everything.

What Is a Bitcoin Letter of Instructions?

A letter of instructions (sometimes called a memorandum of instructions, side letter, or estate administration guide) is a non-legal document that provides practical guidance to your executor, trustee, or heirs about how to locate, access, and administer your Bitcoin after your death or incapacity.

Unlike a will or trust, the letter of instructions:

For Bitcoin holders, the letter of instructions fills a critical gap: the will and trust establish who gets the Bitcoin, but they do not and should not contain the practical information needed to actually find and access it. Without a letter of instructions, even a perfectly drafted estate plan can fail because the executor cannot locate the Bitcoin, does not know which custodian holds it, or — most catastrophically — does not know that the Bitcoin exists at all.

Letter of Instructions vs Will vs Trust

Document Legally Binding? Public Record? Primary Purpose Contains Seed Phrases?
Will Yes Yes (after probate) Distribute assets; name executor Never
Revocable trust Yes Generally no Hold and distribute assets; avoid probate Never
Letter of instructions No No Practical guidance: where is the Bitcoin, who to call Never (location only)
Seed phrase storage document No No Securely transmit private key material Yes — stored separately with maximum security

The letter of instructions and the seed phrase storage document are distinct and should be stored separately. The letter tells your heirs where the seed phrase is stored; the seed phrase document contains the actual key material. If both are in the same location, compromising that location exposes both your estate's roadmap and the keys to your Bitcoin.

What to Include: The 8 Essential Sections

Section 1: Overview of Bitcoin Holdings

A high-level summary of all Bitcoin held, organized by custody type. Not the actual amounts (which fluctuate with price) but the structure: "I hold Bitcoin in three places: a self-custody hardware wallet, a Coinbase account, and a trust held at [Trustee Name]." This gives your executor a map before diving into details.

Section 2: Exchange and Custodian Accounts

For each exchange or custodian account: the institution name, your account username or email address, the approximate holdings (updated regularly), the customer service phone number and website, and whether two-factor authentication is enabled and where the 2FA recovery codes are stored.

Section 3: Self-Custody Hardware Wallet Information

For each hardware wallet: the device type and model (Coldcard, Ledger, Trezor, etc.), the physical location of the device, where the seed phrase backup is stored (NOT the seed phrase itself — the location), any PIN information (stored separately or with seed phrase), and whether a passphrase (25th word) is used and where that is documented.

Section 4: Multi-Signature Setup (If Applicable)

If any Bitcoin is held in multi-signature custody, this section must explain the scheme (2-of-3, 3-of-5), who holds each key, where each key is stored, the wallet configuration file (PSBT coordination), and the name of the Bitcoin custody specialist who can assist the executor in coordinating a transaction.

Section 5: Bitcoin IRA and Retirement Accounts

For each Bitcoin IRA: the custodian name and contact information, account number (or last 4 digits), named beneficiaries on file, and the contact for beneficiary claims. Note whether the account is Traditional or Roth and remind the executor that the beneficiary designation governs, not the will.

Section 6: Trust and Entity Holdings

If Bitcoin is held inside a trust, LLC, or other entity: the entity name and jurisdiction, the trustee or manager name and contact, where the entity documents are stored, and the contact for the estate planning attorney who drafted the documents.

Section 7: Your Advisory Team

A complete contact list with full name, firm, phone, email, and role: estate planning attorney, CPA, financial advisor, Bitcoin custody specialist, trustee contact (if applicable), and executor or successor trustee. Tell your heirs to contact the estate planning attorney first — they will coordinate the rest.

Section 8: Immediate Action Priorities

A numbered list of the first steps your executor should take with respect to Bitcoin specifically: (1) Do not move any Bitcoin before consulting the estate attorney; (2) Secure all hardware devices; (3) Contact [custodian] at [phone] to notify of death and place a hold on the account; (4) Locate the sealed envelope in [location] before accessing any devices.

What Never to Put in the Letter

Critical Security Rule: The letter of instructions should never contain actual seed phrases, private keys, wallet recovery phrases, or PIN numbers. The letter is likely to be seen by multiple people and stored in locations that may not be secure enough for key material. It should reference where these items are stored — not contain them.

Never include in your letter of instructions:

Template: Bitcoin Letter of Instructions Structure

BITCOIN ESTATE ADMINISTRATION GUIDE Prepared by: [Your Name] Date prepared: [Date] Last updated: [Date] Location of this document: [e.g., fireproof safe at home, copy with attorney] --- SECTION 1 — OVERVIEW OF BITCOIN HOLDINGS I hold Bitcoin in the following locations. This is for identification purposes only; exact amounts should be verified at time of administration. 1. [Exchange Name] (exchange account) 2. [Hardware wallet type] — self-custody cold storage 3. [Trust name] — held by [Trustee Name], contact below --- SECTION 2 — EXCHANGE AND CUSTODIAN ACCOUNTS Exchange: Coinbase Account email: [email] Customer service: 1-888-908-7930 / coinbase.com/help Two-factor authentication: Yes — recovery codes in [location] Approximate holdings: Check account for current balance Action required: Contact customer service to report death, request estate claim form --- SECTION 3 — HARDWARE WALLET Device: [Coldcard / Ledger Model X / etc.] Physical location: [Fireproof safe in master bedroom / bank safe deposit box / etc.] Seed phrase backup: Stored in sealed envelope labeled [description] in [location] PIN: Stored with hardware wallet device [or: stored in [separate location]] Passphrase (25th word): [Yes — stored in [location] / No passphrase used] NOTE: Do not attempt to access this device without first contacting [Bitcoin custody specialist name and phone]. --- SECTION 4 — ADVISORY TEAM (CONTACT FIRST) Estate Planning Attorney: [Full Name], [Firm], [Phone], [Email] CPA / Tax Advisor: [Full Name], [Firm], [Phone], [Email] Bitcoin Custody Specialist: [Full Name / Firm], [Phone], [Email] Executor / Successor Trustee: [Full Name], [Phone], [Email] CONTACT THE ESTATE ATTORNEY FIRST before taking any action with Bitcoin. --- SECTION 5 — IMMEDIATE PRIORITIES FOR EXECUTOR 1. Do not move or sell any Bitcoin before consulting the estate attorney 2. Secure all hardware wallet devices — do not power them on 3. Notify [Exchange Name] of my death — request account hold 4. Locate sealed envelope in [location] — do not open without attorney present 5. Verify Bitcoin IRA beneficiary designation with [Custodian Name] at [phone]

How to Store the Letter Securely

The letter of instructions needs to be secure enough to protect sensitive account information — but accessible enough that the right people can find it quickly after your death or incapacity. This is a tension that requires deliberate planning.

Storage Options Ranked by Security and Accessibility

Storage Location Security Accessibility Best Use
With estate planning attorney High High (attorney contacted immediately) Primary copy — attorney knows to produce it immediately at death
Home fireproof safe (known to executor) Good Good (executor has combination) Home copy — executor can access without attorney
Bank safe deposit box High Lower (may require court order to open) Not recommended as primary — can be inaccessible immediately after death
Encrypted digital file (password manager) Good (depends on password security) Good if executor knows master password Digital backup — update simultaneously with paper version
With executor personally Moderate Excellent Only if executor is highly trusted and understands Bitcoin security

The Safe Deposit Box Trap

Many people store important documents in a bank safe deposit box — a seemingly obvious choice. But safe deposit boxes can become inaccessible immediately after death. In many states, the bank freezes access when they receive notice of a depositor's death, pending a court order or letters testamentary. If your executor needs to access your Bitcoin letter of instructions urgently in the first days after death, a safe deposit box may cause critical delays. Use a home fireproof safe or attorney storage as the primary location, with the safe deposit box as a backup only.

The Multiple-Copy Strategy

One copy of the letter is not enough. A single point of failure — fire, flood, the attorney relocating offices, the safe being inaccessible — can leave your heirs without guidance. Maintain at least three copies:

  1. Primary copy: With your estate planning attorney, in a sealed envelope labeled with your name and instructions for when to open it
  2. Home copy: In a fireproof safe to which your executor or spouse has the combination, with a note in your will referencing the safe's location
  3. Digital backup: An encrypted copy stored in a password manager or encrypted file, with the master password documented for your executor in a separate secure location

Each copy should be numbered and dated, so your executor knows which version is most current if they find multiple copies.

The Hardware Wallet Section in Detail

For most self-custody Bitcoin holders, the hardware wallet section of the letter of instructions requires the most care — because hardware wallets are the most technically complex component and the most likely to create access problems for non-technical heirs.

What Your Executor Needs to Know About Hardware Wallets

Multi-Signature Hardware Wallets

If any Bitcoin requires multiple hardware wallets to sign a transaction (2-of-3 multisig, etc.), the letter must explain this clearly. An executor who finds one hardware wallet and attempts to access the full Bitcoin balance with it will fail — and may panic, thinking the Bitcoin is lost. The letter should explain: "This wallet holds Key 1 of a 2-of-3 multi-signature arrangement. Key 2 is held by [Name] at [Location]. Key 3 is held by [Name/institution]. Contact [Bitcoin custody specialist] who can coordinate a transaction using any two of the three keys."

Exchange and Custodian Account Section

Exchange-held Bitcoin is the easiest type for heirs to access — but it requires prompt action to prevent complications. Most major exchanges have a formal estate claim process, and the longer the account sits dormant without notification, the greater the risk of complications.

Per-Exchange Information to Document

Bitcoin IRA Custodians Require Special Handling

Bitcoin IRA custodians (BitcoinIRA, Alto IRA, iTrust Capital, etc.) have a specific beneficiary claim process distinct from the estate claim process. The executor needs to know: (1) the custodian's name and contact, (2) that the account passes by beneficiary designation (not will), (3) who the named beneficiaries are, and (4) that named beneficiaries should contact the custodian directly and not wait for probate to be completed. See our guide on Bitcoin inherited IRA rules for what beneficiaries need to do once they make contact.

Your Advisory Team Section

The single most important entry in your letter of instructions is your estate planning attorney's contact information — clearly labeled "CONTACT FIRST."

Your executor is likely not a Bitcoin expert, an estate law expert, and a tax expert simultaneously. By directing them to the attorney first, you ensure that all subsequent actions are properly sequenced and legally sound. The attorney will coordinate the CPA, the custody specialist, the trustee, and any other professionals needed.

Who Should Be Listed and What Information to Include

Keeping the Letter Current

A letter of instructions written in 2022 may be dangerously out of date in 2026 — exchanges have changed, hardware wallets have been replaced, trust accounts have been established, advisors have changed firms. An outdated letter can actively mislead your heirs by pointing them to closed accounts or wrong contacts.

Trigger Events That Require Immediate Updates

Annual Review Protocol

At minimum, review and re-date your letter of instructions once per year — and sign or initial each page to confirm currency — even if no changes are needed. This confirms to your executor that the letter is current as of its most recent date, and it gives you the discipline to catch any changes you may have missed. Many Bitcoin holders tie this review to their annual tax preparation meeting with their CPA — a natural checkpoint when financial records are already being reviewed.

The Seed Phrase Companion Document: A Separate, Secure Parallel System

The letter of instructions references where your seed phrase is stored — but your seed phrase itself requires a completely separate security system. These two documents are companions: the letter is the map, and the seed phrase document is the treasure.

Seed Phrase Storage Best Practices

The Passphrase (25th Word) Requires Special Handling

Many security-conscious Bitcoin holders add a passphrase (a 25th word, sometimes called a "secret passphrase" or BIP39 passphrase) to their wallet. This passphrase, combined with the 24-word seed phrase, generates a completely different set of wallet addresses. Without the passphrase, the 24-word seed phrase restores a wallet with zero balance in the passphrase-protected addresses.

The passphrase must be stored separately from the seed phrase — but both must ultimately be accessible to your executor. Common approaches: store the seed phrase with your attorney and the passphrase in a home safe; or use a split-storage approach where different trusted people hold the different components.

Your letter of instructions must make absolutely clear: (1) that a passphrase exists, (2) that the seed phrase alone will appear to show zero balance, and (3) where the passphrase is stored. Failing to communicate this is one of the most common causes of "lost" Bitcoin that is actually recoverable.

Digital Tools for Estate Succession

For Bitcoin holders who prefer digital tools, several options exist for structuring a digital estate plan that integrates with the letter of instructions:

Password Managers with Emergency Access

Password managers like 1Password and Bitwarden offer emergency access features that allow a designated contact to request access after a waiting period. 1Password's Emergency Kit and Bitwarden's Emergency Access feature can be configured so your executor can gain access to account credentials (exchange logins, 2FA backup codes, etc.) after a time delay — giving you time to deny access if the request is unauthorized while ensuring access is eventually available to the right person.

Note: password managers are appropriate for exchange credentials and 2FA codes — they are not appropriate for raw Bitcoin seed phrases, which should always be stored offline.

Dedicated Digital Legacy Services

Services like Everplans, Safe Beyond, and similar digital legacy platforms provide structured frameworks for documenting estate information and designating who receives access. These can complement your letter of instructions for organizing account credentials, though the same rule applies: seed phrases should be stored offline, not in any digital platform.

Encrypted USB Drive with Executor

An encrypted USB drive (BitLocker, VeraCrypt, or similar) containing a digital version of the letter of instructions and non-sensitive account information can be held by your executor. The decryption password is stored separately — perhaps with your estate planning attorney. This provides a digital backup that your executor can access without relying on cloud services.

Integrating the Letter with Your Estate Plan

The letter of instructions is most powerful when it is formally integrated into your overall estate plan — not treated as a separate document created in isolation.

Reference the Letter in Your Will and Trust

Your will and trust should include a reference to the letter of instructions: "I have prepared a letter of instructions regarding the location and administration of my digital assets, including Bitcoin. My executor is directed to locate and follow the practical guidance in that letter to facilitate the administration of my estate." This signals to the executor that the letter exists and should be sought.

Coordinate with Your Attorney Annually

Your estate planning attorney should receive an updated copy of your letter of instructions at least annually. Many attorneys now include digital asset guidance review as part of their annual estate plan check-in service. At each update, confirm: the attorney still holds the most recent version, all referenced contact information is current, and any changes to Bitcoin custody have been reflected in both the letter and the estate plan documents.

The Letter as Evidence of Intent

In the event of any dispute over Bitcoin in the estate, a detailed, regularly updated letter of instructions serves as evidence that the Bitcoin was known, accounted for, and intended to be part of the estate. This can be particularly important in cases where Bitcoin is held in cold storage and was not visible in any account statements that would otherwise appear in the estate inventory.

Letter of Instructions for Incapacity, Not Just Death

Many Bitcoin holders think of the letter of instructions as a document for after death. But incapacity — a stroke, accident, dementia, or extended hospitalization — creates the same access problem during your lifetime. Your healthcare proxy and financial power of attorney holder need the same guidance your executor would need.

Consider adding a separate section to your letter of instructions headed "In Case of Incapacity" that:

Wyoming, along with many other states, has updated its Uniform Power of Attorney Act to explicitly include digital assets. Verify that your financial power of attorney is current and grants the necessary authority over Bitcoin. If it was drafted before 2020, it may need to be updated to specifically authorize digital asset management.

For comprehensive Bitcoin estate planning, see our guides on Bitcoin estate planning overview, how to put Bitcoin in a trust, Bitcoin cold storage estate planning, how to choose a Bitcoin trustee, Bitcoin inherited IRA rules, and inheriting Bitcoin: the first 30 days.

This guide is updated regularly to reflect changes in exchange policies, hardware wallet technology, digital legacy platforms, and estate administration best practices for Bitcoin holders. It reflects practices as of March 2026. This is not legal advice — your letter of instructions should be created in coordination with a qualified estate planning attorney who understands digital assets. The attorney can integrate the letter with your will, trust, and power of attorney to ensure all documents are mutually consistent and legally effective.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is a Bitcoin letter of instructions?
A Bitcoin letter of instructions is a non-legal practical guide for your heirs, executor, or trustee explaining where your Bitcoin is, who to contact, and what steps to take to locate and access it after your death or incapacity. Unlike a will, it is not legally binding and is not filed with any court. It should tell heirs where your Bitcoin is held -- exchange accounts, hardware wallets, custodians, trusts -- and reference where access credentials are stored, without containing the actual seed phrases or private keys themselves.
Should you put Bitcoin seed phrases in a letter of instructions?
Never. The letter of instructions should reference where your seed phrase is stored -- not contain it. Seed phrases and private keys require maximum security storage (sealed tamper-evident envelopes, fireproof safes, or professional custody arrangements) that is separate from the letter of instructions. The letter tells your heirs where to look; the seed phrase storage document contains the actual key material. Keeping them separate means compromising one does not compromise both.
Who should receive a copy of your Bitcoin letter of instructions?
Your estate planning attorney (primary copy, kept with estate documents), your executor or successor trustee (via a home fireproof safe or direct copy), and possibly an encrypted digital backup accessible to your executor. Do not distribute copies to beneficiaries before your death -- this creates security risk. Your attorney should know to produce the letter immediately upon notification of your death, before any estate proceedings begin.
How often should you update a Bitcoin letter of instructions?
Update immediately after any change: new exchange account, new hardware wallet, change in key storage location, new trust or entity, change in advisor. Annual review is the minimum even without specific changes -- review at the same time as your annual tax preparation or estate plan review. An outdated letter of instructions can actively mislead your executor by pointing to closed accounts, wrong contacts, or Bitcoin that has been moved to a different custody arrangement.
Is a letter of instructions the same as a will?
No. A will is legally binding, filed with the court, and governs asset distribution. A letter of instructions is non-legal, private, and purely practical -- it tells your executor how to find and access your Bitcoin so your will and trust can be carried out. Both are essential for Bitcoin holders: the will determines who gets the Bitcoin; the letter ensures they can actually find it. Without the letter, even a perfectly drafted will may fail because no one knows where the Bitcoin is or how to access it.

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